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Recognizing Child Abuse: What Parents Should Know

Posted on Nov 17th, 2006 by Cathe : Peace Cathe
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Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the child:
  • Has unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes;

  • Has fading bruises or other marks noticeable after an absence from school;
  • Seems frightened of the parents and protests or cries when it is time to go home from school;
  • Shrinks at the approach of adults; or
  • Reports injury by a parent or another adult caregiver.
Consider the possibility of physical abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver:
  • Offers conflicting, unconvincing, or no explanation for the child's injury;
  • Describes the child as "evil," or in some other very negative way;
  • Uses harsh physical discipline with the child; or
  • Has a history of abuse as a child.
 

SIGNS OF NEGLECT
Consider the possibility of neglect when the child:
  • Is frequently absent from school;
  • Begs or steals food or money from classmates;
  • Lacks needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses;
  • Is consistently dirty and has severe body odor;
  • Lacks sufficient clothing for the weather;
  • Abuses alcohol or other drugs; or
  • States there is no one at home to provide care.


Consider the possibility of neglect when the parent or other adult caregiver:
  • Appears to be indifferent to the child;
  • Seems apathetic or depressed;
  • Behaves irrationally or in a bizarre manner; or
  • Is abusing alcohol or other drugs.


SIGNS OF SEXUAL ABUSE
Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the child:
  • Has difficulty walking or sitting;
  • Suddenly refuses to change for gym or to participate in physical activities;
  • Demonstrates bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior;
  • Becomes pregnant or contracts a venereal disease, particularly if under age fourteen;
  • Runs away; or
  • Reports sexual abuse by a parent or another adult caregiver.


Consider the possibility of sexual abuse when the parent or other adult caregiver:
  • Is unduly protective of the child, severely limits the child's contact with other children, especially of the opposite sex;
  • Is secretive and isolated; or
  • Describes marital difficulties involving family power struggles or sexual relations.

 
SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL MALTREATMENT
Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the child:
  • Shows extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior, extreme passivity or aggression;
  • Is either inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequently rocking or head-banging, for example);
  • Is delayed in physical or emotional development;
  • Has attempted suicide; or
  • Reports a lack of attachment to the parent.
Consider the possibility of emotional maltreatment when the parent or other adult caregiver:
  • Constantly blames, belittles, or berates the child;
  • Is unconcerned about the child and refuses to consider offers of help for the child's school problems; or
  • Overtly rejects the child.

 
Physical abuse:

The four major types of child abuse are:
  • Physical abuse
  • Sexual abuse
  • Emotional abuse
  • Neglect
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